Make love to me.

Hi, Im scared. Cause there is the kid I really dont like in my school group next year. And I hate them so much. Like them makes me feel all sick and uncomfortable. Im paranoid that they might be in my classes. I know I sound wimpy. But please help.

i think you should avoid them as much as possible. don’t even look at them in the halls. and if they’re in any of your classes, you can go to your guidance counselor and ask to switch. you could probably even tell them the specific person/people who you make you feel uncomfortable so in the future you won’t be stuck in classes with them. and if it turns into a problem were they are doing/saying stuff that amke you uncomfortable and sick, tell a teacher/friend/parent. i hope this helped!

Hi. So my best friend and I like the same guy but she doesn’t know how I feel about him. Now, they’re together. And my heart hurts a little bit more each time I see them together. What should I do?

i think you should just forget about him. maybe in the future you guys will start talking and who knows. but for now, i’d be single and ready to mingle. i mean, it’s summer! you know? and i also don’t think you should resent/be mad at your friend either. i mean, if it was the other way around, would you want her to be mad at you and make you feel guilty? no. everything happens for a reason. there’s a time and place for everything. maybe it’s not the time now, but one day? no one really knows. i would try to put it in the past. but most importantly, stay strong and don’t even think this is going to bring down your summer. :)

hi :) first of all, i think you’re awesome for doing this! my “problem” is so stupid, but i’m just so confused lol :) and im sorry if it ends up being long! i ramble a lot haha

okay, so there’s this boy. we both work at the same place (but we work different shifts), and apparently he’s liked me since march. i was unaware of that, however, until recently. the thing is, i’ve liked him too. so we started talking and I would come to our job and eat with him while he was on break and stuff, and everything was good! one day when we were eating he asked if i wanted to go out on a real date with him, and obviously i said yes. this was on a friday, and he asked me to go out the next saturday. but then starting sunday, he was really weird. just…distant, and not all there. i asked him about it and he said he was just thinking about things, so i let it go for a few days. we went out on saturday and both of us had a good time. then, he texted me and he was like tonight was fun, but it seemed way short! and i was like yeah i thought it was short too, oh well that leaves stuff for next time! and he texted back and said yeah…i have super mixed feelings…mostly not about you but myself. and i was like what do you mean and he said there are pros and cons to all of this…like having a girlfriend has perks but being single i dont have much to worry about. the reason im saying all this is because my ex who i dated for 4 years pretty much destroyed all the fun and meaning of relationships for me and im just trying to figure out if like emotionally i can do this, because i just don’t want to hurt you. and we kept talking about it, and then he just stopped texting me and I haven’t really heard from him since. so…should I take that as a sign that it’s not going to happen, or should i just hang on? i hate being such a girl lol

first off, thanks! :D and aw, okay. well, i think it’s good he didn’t lead you on and make you think you guys were going to jump into a relationship - then tell you about his mixed feelings once you’ve already fallen for him. you know? and atleast he doesn’t want to hurt you, or atleast that’s what he wants you to believe. i think, you should wait out. try not to be thinking about it constantly, let him text you when he’s ready. focus on hanging out with your friends, be open to new people. if time flies and he hasn’t called/texted back. it’s his loss. i mean it’s summer. there are plenty of single guys out there! :D hope this helped. :)

Okay so, I’m not really upset, I’m just mad. I had these plans all figured out to go to the movies with my best friend tonight and then she would spend the night. And in hour and half before the movie she tells me she can’t go. And then she tells me she also can’t spend the night. Her parents ALWAYS do this. So I’m sitting there getting ready and then I find out I’m getting ready for nothing. I was so ready to go out and have fun, because I’ve been stuck in my house for 2 days. And now I’m stuck here again, I have no idea what to do, I’m about to shoot myself over boredem. I wanted to go out and hang with her and meet some people and now I’m in my room, how am I suppose to have fun and meet people in my room? No clue. 

aw, i’m sorry! the thing is though, my parents are like hers. atleast that’s how it seems. they are very strict, they don’t let me go out for no reason. they just keep me in my house with nothing to do. so, it’s not really her fault. i’m sure if she had a choice, she would be hanging out with you right now. maybe you should try making the plans more in advance. like the day before. or even longer than that. i personally do that, and my parents say yes WAY more often if i ask in advance. and also, try making plans with other friends, but not like ditching her/shutting her out.

ok so I heard about Justin Biebers summer My World Tour and since im a huuuge fan, I really want to go. But I dont just want to see the concert I want the VIP passes. But the VIP passes are around $2,000+ and I dont know if I have that kind of money (since of the economy and stuff) and my parents probably wont let me go. BUT I REALLY WANT TO GO. So I have this plan, today my friend and I saw this ad on the street that said this lady will pay between $250 - $500 per week to help poor children from 5 - 9 pm in summer. So I was thinking, maybe I could do that job and save up so I’ll be able to pay for the concert and something to wear, PLUS save the extra money for other stuff. Do you think its a good idea? Btw, I have told my mom about the job, but just not about using the money for the concert. plus shes really skeptical about it because im only 13.. but I know if I get the job I probably wont have enough time because its August 21st, but then theres another one on November 23rd and i’ll turn 13..so it could be my birthday and christmas present in one. BUT im thinking about what i might wear because its winter, theres more options in summer. Anyway what should I do? or what do you THINK i should do, because I have an unhealthy obsession for him LOL thanks.

yeah, meet and greets are insanely expensive! and since he is so popular, of course it’s like over $2,000. but that sounds like a great job! especially if you’re making that kind of money, in that time frame. i think as long as your mom is okay with it and it’s a legit job, not some scam, you should do it. and it’s good you will have your friend along with you. so you won’t be alone in the situation and it could maybe be a fun learning experience. i think you should go to the concert only in august, and do meet and greets in november. because it’ll take at least 7-8 weeks to make enough for the meet and greet pass itself. and making it a goal to have over $2000 by the end of august may/may not work out. i hope this helped! and aw, jb fans are cute. hah, and if you do end up meeting him, tell me how it is! i’d love to know!<33

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 OK, so I’ve kind of had this thing for a girl for a long time. We’ve confronted the situation and I’ve been shot down but I’m having trouble getting over. Oh by the way, she’s my best friends sister. :/ I honestly don’t know why I’m posting this here, I think I’ve exhausted every possible idea.

I don’t know if you can put this as anonymous or not, but it doesn’t really matter.

first i want to thank you for being my first submission.<3 i see you’re just venting, but if i could say anything to you. it would be not to let it effect your relationship with your best friend.